Father’s Day Reflections: Lessons from My Dad

This year’s Father’s Day is my first without my dad, Leo E. Perino. He passed away in his sleep at the end of May 2026, just 29 days after his retirement, at the age of 79. My dad had a passion for work and an immense love for his daughters. He was an exemplary father to two girls.

Many of my friends who are now fathers to daughters impress me. Their parenting skills are remarkable. Here are five things my dad did that profoundly influenced my life and happiness.

Equal Opportunities and Encouragement

My sister Angie and I were born in the 1970s as the girl power movement began. Our dad never preached equality; he demonstrated it. He consistently assured us that we could achieve anything, no matter our gender. This belief shaped us, allowing us to aim high. I remember a yellow T-shirt I had that stated, “Anything boys can do, girls can do better.” It was a constant reminder that nurtured my self-belief.

The Importance of Education and Reading

My dad prioritized education and reading. I learned to read young and constantly read books. In third grade, he began a tradition with me: I had to read The Rocky Mountain News and The Denver Post before he returned from work, selecting and discussing articles. Our discussions formed a habit that I maintain to this day. It wasn’t just about reading news; it was about learning to think critically.

Encouraging Communication

As a mentor to young women, I’ve noticed the need for articulating thoughts clearly. My dad encouraged me to express my views on news and politics early on. He would listen, debate, and affirm, giving me the confidence to speak in various settings, including on television with large audiences. Fathers who focus on this aspect of their daughters’ growth help nurture confident women.

Faith and Values

Our family embraced faith with my sister and I often debating about attending early church services. Despite differing interests, we regularly attended church, instilled with strong values and the belief in a higher power. This foundation has supported us through grief and amplified our happiness.

Support Without Judgment

After grad school, I realized a career in local news wasn’t for me. Fearing I’d disappointed him, I hesitated to tell my dad. When I did, he simply supported me, assuring me things would work out. I recall our drive through Kansas’s cornfields, listening to country music fondly. My sister had a similar experience when making a big life decision. He offered help without questioning, providing a safe haven from judgment.

A father does more than protect his daughters from the challenges of life. He offers refuge when the world becomes overwhelming.

As my father lay in his final rest, he left behind his copy of Purple State, bookmarked near the end. Though he didn’t finish it, a friend comforted me by noting he read the Green Bay Packers scene, his favorite.

Though he didn’t complete the book, he lived a fulfilling story. Thank you, Dad.

To all the fathers of daughters out there, your presence is invaluable. You have a profound impact that extends beyond measure.

Dana Perino co-anchors FOX News Channel’s America’s Newsroom and co-hosts The Five. She also hosts the weekly podcast Perino on Politics. Perino has been with the network since 2009.